What to Wear to a Funeral for Women

Choose your attire more carefully when you are part of the grieving family. Even during this time of sadness, eyes will be on you. Consider a traditional black shift dress and coordinating sweater or blazer. A dark, minimally printed skirt and blouse or skirt and sweater are also acceptable, as is a dark-toned suit. In warm weather, consider a basic short-sleeved fitted dress. Choose shoes that are appropriate for the weather if you will be attending a graveside service. Black, charcoal, navy or dark brown are ideal choices.

Opt for gray, navy blue, brown or violet for a family funeral. Head-to-toe black is not necessary. A skirt or dress slacks are acceptable, and you should choose an outfit you can move easily in, especially if you will also be cooking for a wake or reception after. Subtle prints and small, tasteful accessories can help you look polished on this sad occasion. Add a jacket or cardigan for warmth and to cover your shoulders if needed.

Dress in a practical and tasteful outfit for funerals in which you are simply there to pay your respects. If you are not a part of the immediate family, you can choose a conservative outfit you already own. Attire you would wear to a meeting or church is typically appropriate. Do avoid wearing very light or bright colors to the funeral; however, a light or white blouse with a dark skirt or slacks is fine. Low necklines and short skirts are also best avoided. Dress slacks are acceptable for women to wear to a funeral, as are pantsuits.