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If you are not feeling particularly sexy after having children, you are not alone. Patricia Koch, Ph.D., tells "Good Housekeeping Magazine" that as many as 67 percent of women report a low sex drive at some point in their lives. A loss of libido can stem from a variety of sources--physical, hormonal and psychological. Though you may care less whether you ever have sex with your partner again, sex really is an important part of romantic relationships. You may have to work hard to get your groove back.