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Sex talk may seem an intimidating skill, but it's really just verbal foreplay. Like any other form of foreplay, the only reason to engage in sex talk is the enjoyment you and your partner get from it. Sex talk should be fun. Sex talk---the good stuff, that is---is all about creating an intimate mood. Talking dirty can stir arousal, and it can keep your partner's desire stoked. Furthermore, it can tip your partner and yourself over into climax. On a deeper level, sex talk creates a bond between you and your partner, the bond of speaking a secret language to each other.