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My real life name is Jennifer, but that's just boring, so I'm known on the internet as Unconditional Mom. Sometimes I answer to that first. Why? Well, I'm a PTO Chairperson; Karate Event Coordinator; an amateur photographer;  a professional website & logo designer. However, what defines me most is being a single mom to a karate chopping, ballerina, jazz & tap dancing, gymnastic tumbling, swimming, pre-school student with the most amazing personality and a heart as pure as gold. She is my light, ambition and my own personal dream come true. Yes, she's a little bit spoiled, but I'm okay with that...and so is she!
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It seems like I prepare myself mentally, every year, for March 16th to come around. A reminder of what and who we lost. A very amazing 21 year old who was going to change the world had she been given the chance to live longer, thrive more and shine as bright as the sun.

A young woman who made countless friends across the country because they saw something special about her - she was rare, unique and there will never be quite another soul like hers. Her death impacted lives from across the globe. The world could not believe that their angel on earth had become an angel in heaven. We wept in unison.



Still we don't forget. We keep her memory and spirit alive with our actions, thoughts and words the best that we can. It's to pay homage to a hero, a daughter, a sister, a granddaughter, a niece, a cousin, a friend...whose laughter & smile were contagious.

We remember the hugs that she would give - even to a stranger. Little did we know that there were angel wings tucked away inside her human arms. A heart so pure that we could never compare; only appreciate the fact that we each had our special place inside of it. Words spoken so sincere that we never questioned the validity.




The void in each of our lives remains consistent, but we also know how fortunate we are to have shared even a single moment with her. And for that we count our blessings every day.

If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever...


Our Angel in Fatigues

To learn more about SGT Amanda Pinson, please visit her Memorial Page at:
www.myspace.com/amandapinson

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Five years ago, yesterday, I gave birth to a beautiful little girl named Alexis. My miracle baby - the one doctors said I would never get pregnant with and when I did  - told me she would never make it.

We've been celebrating her birthday for the last two weeks. She's an only child and, as mentioned in previous blogs, spoiled to the core. Where I am elated that we've reached that milestone birthday I'm also disappointed beyond epic proportions.

I shouldn't be. I should have seen it coming.

For the sake of my daughter, I have been trying so hard to get along with her biological father. I grew up without a father and I know that it can cause you emotional pain and insecurities that not many can understand unless they have stood in your shoes.

I've put me and my feelings about him - last - because it should be about her.

With all the sacrificing I do, for the love of my child, I also give 'him' the benefit of a doubt. I expected that yesterday, of all days, he would at least pick up the phone and call our daughter to say two simple words: Happy Birthday.

But he didn't.

Instead, I had to look into those big blue eyes of hers and respond to her question of, "Is my Daddy going to call?" and say, "I don't know" with no 'logical' explanation as to why and giving it all I had to keep the look of, "I'm so sorry he's your Father; you deserve better than this honey" off of my face.

This has somehow made ME feel guilty and I know I shouldn't; easier said than done.

She didn't even ask for a gift from him. Albeit he has only sent her one birthday gift in 5 years so that wasn't expected anyway. All she wanted was a simple phone call; an acknowledgment of sorts that today was a special day in her life.

Yet, just about six weeks ago she picked up the phone (he moved to Arizona shortly after she was born) to call him and say, "Happy Birthday, Daddy. I love you"

I'll never being able to understand how some people can just turn-off that 'switch' and feel nothing because of how I feel being her Mommy. It sounds so cliche', but I would die for her; she's my miracle baby.

I know that she'll appreciate my unconditional love for her someday, but that doesn't get her through...today. I don't need acknowledgement - I just need her to feel loved by her Mother and her Father.

While tucking her in last night I asked her, "Did you have a good day, today, sunshine?" She sweetly replied, "I did Mommy. My favorite part is when you brought cupcakes for me and all of my friends to school"

Imagine what a phone call from her father would have done for her.

Even if you aren't with your childrens father, if he still manages to call and say, "Happy Birthday" to your child(ren) - count your blessings - some aren't so fortunate...

I wrote this on a local news blog a couple of years ago and since the topic of flouride toothpaste was brought up on a local mom website it reminded me of it. I figured it would be a great thing to share here:

My daughter, Alexis, was rushed to the ER yesterday and over something that most of us wouldn't forsee being a huge health risk to our child(ren). I woke up today to find my daughter standing over me sucking on a tube of toothpaste (Colgate) in bubble gum flavor. I grabbed it and thought nothing of it.

About an hour later she vomitted. It came out smelling like a mixture of toothpaste and bubble gum which instantly told me that she swallowed more than I had first assumed. I called the Poison Control Center number, and told them precisely what happened and what was happening at the present time. Alexis had consumed 1/2 of a 4.6oz tube. I was told, "She has swallowed a toxic dose. You need to get her to the emergency room immediately!". I asked if I should take her myself or call an ambulance and the ladies response was, "What you should be doing is getting your car keys and getting her to the ER immediately!!!". Now, as a mother, my heart sank to my feet and I WANTED to break down and cry.

However, I maintained my cool & got the both of us ready; we were out the door in 5 minutes. At that point, I called my mom and Step-Dad who were playing golf in St. Peters and asked them to meet me at the hospital. I then called the hospital to confirm that Poison Control had called them and advised them that we were on the way; they had.

When we arrived, they ran an EKG and a blood test. Flouride can cause HEART DAMAGE. That's the "nice part" about it though. If a child who weights a mere 22lbs swallows 2.5 ounces of flouride it can and has been FATAL. Alexis weighs 27lbs and consumed 2.3 ounces. Imagine my despair if you will.

Upon arriving home hours later and getting Alexis settled down here is some information I found on a dental website. However, please keep in mind that the ER Doctor advised me that consuming too much flouride does NOT cause diarrhea NOR vomitting. A Doctor... good grief!

Surprisingly, these answers reveal the sad truth that many people do not understand about the toxicity of fluoride and when to call the Poison Control Center. It is unquestionably important for everyone to learn the signs and symptoms of fluoride toxicity, especially when there is a small child in the family.

The facts about fluoride toxicity are:

Early symptoms of acute fluoride toxicity (e.g. gastrointestinal pain, nausea, vomiting, headaches) can be produced at doses as low as 0.1 to 0.3 mg/kg.

Swallowing fluoride at the amount 5 mg/kg can be fatal.

Ingestion of as little as 1 percent of a tube of flavored children's toothpaste can produce acute fluoride toxicity in a young child.

The most common symptoms of acute fluoride toxicity include:

Nausea (97%), Vomiting (68%), Diarrhea (65%), Abdominal cramps (53%), Headaches (41%), and Burning sensations in the throat or chest (12%).

SOURCE: Penman AD, Brackin BT, Embrey R. (1997). Outbreak of acute fluoride poisoning caused by a fluoride overfeed, Mississippi, 1993. Public Health Reports 112:403-9.

Website where I found the information: http://www.softdental.com/houston_dentist/dying_from_t
oothpaste_ingestion.html

If you have small children, PLEASE put the toothpaste away. Do not assume that they will not touch it. That same tube of toothpaste had been sitting in the cabinet above my toilet for about 6 months now. ALWAYS SUPERVISE your child while they are brushing their teeth and ALWAYS use flouride free toothpaste for children 3 and under.

It truly concerns me that an EMERGENCY room DOCTOR did not know this information so I felt it imperative to pass it on to anyone and everyone on my friends list so you all will be better prepared should this happen to your child(ren).


http://community.myfoxspringfield.com/blogs/apsmom/2007/06/04/Lethal_Toothpaste


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My only child is turning five-years-old?!


Where did the time go? It seems like yesterday that I was going through 20 hours of labor. This is the 2nd milestone birthday of her life and I'm not sure who is more excited; me or her. Yet, I'm a little sad too. I want to keep her as a child forever.

I've been planning this particular birthday for a couple of months now. I want it to be extra special so we're having a big birthday party; last year we celebrated at Disney World so I knew it would be heart to top. So far so good...

The one thing that I couldn't get past was, "What am I going to get her for her birthday?" She really is a little girl who has just about everything. I've confessed to spoiling her - she's my one and only and my special miracle baby who is worth the world to me.

I started looking around on the World Wide Web for some ideas and came across gifts that aren't 'the norm', but absolutely adorable; some where just down-right neat. I felt like I had been missing out.

Then, it dawned on me that perhaps I'm not the only Mom that didn't realize that these gifts existed.

That's when my personal blog became the host of the Unconditional Mom 2010 Birthday Gift Guide: For Children. Now, for legality purposes I want to mention that this has absolutely nothing to do with ModernMom.com other than I'm writing about what is taking place on my personal blog.

I've decided to host various contests on my blog that are being sponsored by countless companies - everything from Hasbro to a company called Zooni.

The concept is to give parents an idea of where to find original gifts or gifts that just stand out above 'the norm'. Companies are submitting their product(s) for review and contributing an extra for my readers to win them...and lots of them!

Even more neat, for a lack of better verbage, is that my daughter is hand picking a lot of them out. So, in essence, it's giving our readers the opportunity to see what children actually like which really makes this particular Birthday Gift Guide: For Children stand out as I'm confident Alexis, my daughter, has great taste.

We want to share what she's getting with our readers and wanted to let you all know about it, too. So without further ado, you are all cordially invited to my personal blog for the 2010 Birthday Gift Guide: For Children.

Simply click the image below to visit and have fun! After all, it is her 5th birthday, but she's sharing the gifts with you, too!


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While you're there, don't forget to check out the contests for adults, as well; including the opportunity to win 1 of 10 gift baskets from Cottonelle.

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As a former victim of Salmonella poisoning I learned first-hand just how awful it feels to have the poison consume your body...and sadly my then one-year-old daughter had it as well.

Food poisoning is scary. Every day millions of people purchase food on the blind trust that the people who have processed it have done so with our families health in mind. Since having Salmonella poisoning I have been leery of eating meat even close to the expiration date.

So how do we, as consumers, know when things are okay to eat? There are usually dates on products, but what if a company doesn't use a standard date, and uses those infamous codes that we aren't 'in the know' about?

Well, the internet is a great resource to get your knowledge on and I'm a firm believer in using it to it's fullest extent.

Last night, my daughter requested pancakes and sausage for dinner. Okay, not the most healthy meal, but she's allowed to have something with a little extra oomph than the norm on occasion.

A few hours later she said her stomach was bothering her so that 'mommy radar' went off, slight paranoia crept in, and I went to make sure that everything was okay in regard to expiration dates.

First and foremost, expired pancake mix can be deadly. Didn't know that? Well then I'm glad you're reading this article! Any type of powdered pre-mixed batter can grow mold and give those consuming it an anaphylaxis reaction to the molds themselves. I already knew, before I went to check on the expiration date, that it was fine... however, I had to do that second-check just in case.

Next on the list were the eggs. I noticed that the expiration date on the package was January 5th; I made them January 8th. I didn't panic over that. Although it did raise an interesting question, "How long are eggs good for after the expiration date anyway?"

Off to the internet I went in search of an answer. The Food Safety and Inspection Service of the USDA.gov website has a great read with even better information to refer to: http://www.fsis.usda.gov

Turns out that eggs are good for 3-4 weeks after their expiration date and that my daughter had a need for some extra attention from Mommy. Good to know. Sad to know now that I realize how many cartons of eggs I have tossed into the trash prematurely. We live, we learn...but at least we can do so with a lesser threat of food poisoning.
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