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  • Give Up Some Control!

    It is easy to think that as a single mom you need to do everything. It is easy to think that, because most of the time you DO do everything. As time goes by, doing everything doesn't seem as overwhelming as it first did. Daunting, yes, but not nearly so all-consuming.

  • Sometimes I Just Wanna Dance...

    Have you ever looked at your life, your daily routine, your kids, your job, and thought… I just wanna throw on a pair of heels and dance the night away? I have!

  • Staying Friends After a Divorce...

    Divorce can be messy and complex, especially when there are issues of custody and ownership involved. While it might seem impossible at times, staying friends during and after a divorce can help make your transition smoother and your life happier--even post-divorce.

  • 10 Good & Easy Flirting Tips

    Flirting is the art of playfully drawing the attention of a desirable man or woman and holding it. Doing it probably already comes naturally to you. Doing it well takes practice. Mastering it can mean a date for next Saturday night. Next time you go out, practice these 10 simple flirting tips to catch the eye of that cute guy or girl and keep it.

  • 10 Hot Men with Sexy Hairstyles

    Who are the hottest men in Hollywood and which of them have the best hair? Some people say clothes make a man, while others may argue that his hair does. A man can be incredibly good looking one day, then get a bad hair cut the next and suddenly his looks have lost a bit of the luster. From long hair to closely cropped cuts, a few men have perfected the art of a good hairstyle to frame their faces well and bring out their hotness. These are our personal faves:

  • 10 Reasons to Say I Love You

    Just three little words can mean the whole world to someone. As a relationship matures, you may start to forget to say, "I love you" as you get stuck in the routines of daily life. Telling someone you love him often helps you maintain your close bonds over time. Use the words liberally.

  • 10 Reasons Why You Love Him

    After years of dating, finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is a rewarding experience. As a couple, you endure trials and tribulations, but you use your love for each other to pull you through each experience. With each experience, you are reminded of why you love him.

  • 10 Signs a Man Is in Love

    Let's face it: Men can be difficult to understand. If your guy isn't upfront about his feelings, you may be wondering whether or he's really in love or still playing the field. While there are no sure-fire ways to tell--as every many is different--certain signs can help you tell if your man is in love.

  • 10 Things to Ask My Divorce Lawyer

    Divorce can be relieving and traumatizing at the same time, especially if younger children are involved. While some women may be able to amicably work out the situation with their soon-to-be former spouses, others need to secure the services of a qualified divorce attorney. Asking the right questions before signing a contract with a lawyer can help spare you unnecessary financial and emotional turmoil.

  • 10 Things to Say to the One You Love

    The intense emotion of love is almost indescribable. Many infatuated individuals struggle with their words when trying to decide just how to express the depth of their emotion. Instead of fumbling over potential phrases in your head, select some proven classics that can share your emotion and show your partner that your feelings are real and long-lasting.

  • 10 Unique Birthday Ideas for Her

    Sometimes you've been with a person so long that you have run through the list of traditional birthday gifts or party ideas. Then, there are other times when a traditional birthday just won't fit the way you feel about that special woman. In these cases, only a unique gift will do. These 10 ideas are sure to spark your creativity so that you can create the perfect birthday.

  • 10 Unique Birthday Ideas for Him

    Creating a unique birthday for a man can be difficult. Guys tend to have a firm idea of what they want and need. The problem is, they may not share these ideas with people responsible for planning gifts or parties for their birthday. This is where some thought and research come into play. Use these ideas to create a birthday the man in your life will love.

  • 10 Ways to Catch a Cheating Husband

    Gary Neuman, marriage counselor and author of "The Truth About Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do yo Prevent It," claims that 93 percent of men will never admit they have cheated without provocation. This means, if you are trying to catch your cheating husband, you will have to dig for the truth.

  • 10 Ways to Get Your Man Back

    After a painful break-up you may feel lost and alone. All you want is to get him back. This is enough to drive some women to stalking. However, relationship counselor Dr. Ellen Kreidman suggests quite the opposite. If you really want to get your man back it is time to play cool.

  • 10 Ways to Make Your Date Night Special

    A candlelit dinner a deux is always lovely for a date night, but maybe you’re searching for novel ways to celebrate your precious time out with your husband. With that in mind, we found inspiration from author Courtney Cooke’s book, "Create A Date: 52 Romantic, Sexy, and Fun Things to Do Together -- suggestions for how to make your night out truly fun and magical." With fresh date night ideas like these, all you need is a babysitter and a sexy little dress.

  • 10 Ways to Show Someone How Much You Love Them

    The difficulty people have in expressing love is painted amusingly in "The Fiddler On the Roof," the classic musical set in pre-World War I Russia. When Tevye whimsically asks his wife, "Do you love me?" Golde replies, exasperated, that she's washed his clothes, cleaned up after him, cooked for him, lived with him and fought with him for 25 years--and if that isn't love, what is? In the century since, relationships have changed substantially, but love is still about giving and taking and sharing. Here are 10 ways to show someone how much you love them.

  • 15 Signs of Falling in Love

    Many individuals eagerly anticipate falling in love, because they have never experienced love or don't really know what being in love feels like. These romantic novices know that love is a euphoric emotion that they want to experience firsthand, and they may even go out of their way to hunt love out. If you think that the feelings you have for your current partner may be advancing from mere affection to full-fledged love, consider some common signs of love.

  • 23 Ways to Fight Fair with Your Husband

    Thirty years of marriage counseling and 25 years of a second marriage have convinced me that couples do not need to fight; they need to discuss. Married couples need to solve problems, and sometimes they need to disagree, but they don't need to squabble, argue or bicker. Fights are dramatic, a dynamic that does not really help a discussion. If you have enough energy to create drama, you have more than enough to tone it down into a discussion. However, because social expectations and mythology are so strong (fighting is often glorified in films and on television as a sign of passion), many of my clients want guidelines for "fighting fair." I've developed a set of Fair Fight Guidelines you may find helpful.

  • 3 Ways to be Unconditionally Loving

    Love isn’t an ultimatum and it can never be a trade, there is only genuine fulfillment in unconditional love which means no giving your kids a treat for doing the dishes or having sex with your husband because he took out the trash (humans aren’t dogs). Genuine, unconditional love is given no matter what the actions or words of the other person are.

  • 3rd Anniversary Ideas

    By your third wedding anniversary, you have probably figured out what kind of gifts your partner appreciates. While this makes it easier to make a list of gift ideas, settling on that one special anniversary gift could still be difficult. Following are some ideas to celebrate your third anniversary that will help make it memorable.

  • 40th Wedding Anniversary Ideas

    Forty years together takes love. Respect. Patience. And a little bit of stubbornness. When your 40th anniversary approaches, the challenge can be finding a special idea to celebrate that love (and that stubbornness). The writer Mignon McLaughlin once said: "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." So 40 years of marriage means 40 years of falling in love. It's fitting then, that the traditional 40th anniversary gift involves rubies, which are the color of love.

  • 5 Steps for a Wife to Win in a Divorce

    While divorce can feel like a blow to your heart, it may also pack a punch to your pocketbook. Divorce marks the beginning of a new stage in your life, as well as the end of your marriage. As in any disagreement or competition, arming yourself with knowledge allows you to increase your chances of winning. By keeping a cool head and planning carefully, you may improve your financial and emotional outcome, enabling yourself to enter the next stage of your life with wisdom and confidence.

  • 6 Month Anniversary Gifts for Men

    It may not be quite as impressive as the golden anniversary, but the 6-month mark is something to be proud of. Whether you are celebrating 6 months with your fabulous boyfriend or the first 6 months of a blissful marriage, you may want to do something for your man to let him know how special he is. Picking out gifts for men can be tough, but the suggestions below can help.

  • About Marriage Family Counseling

    Counseling for marriage can begin before the official marriage. Pre-marital counseling is often recommended for engaged couples to help them sort out any major differences prior to making a huge commitment. Problems and issues that arise during marriage often lead to the need for more counseling. This doesn't mean that either partner is abnormal, just that they are two imperfect humans trying to learn how to deal with each other. Marriage problems inevitably affect the whole landscape of the family. It is common for couples with serious or long-term marriage problems to feel a need to include their children, as the tension between the marriage partners tends to create tension in all the family relationships. That is where marriage and family counseling comes in.

  • About Unprotected Sex

    Having unprotected sex is risky. When you do not use any type of birth control, you may end up with an unplanned pregnancy. If you do not know your partner's history and do not use a condom, you may end up with a sexually transmitted disease. While some diseases are treatable and curable, others are not.

  • Advice About Guys & Love

    Although you would hope that dealing with guys, love and relationships would get easier the older and more experienced you become, such isn't always the case. You may not be sure how to meet the man of your dreams or how to hold on to him when you do. Once you're in a relationship, navigating through it can be difficult and full of ups and downs.

  • Advice Before the Divorce

    If you are sure you are getting a divorce, you and your spouse have already made the major decision. But, that is not always the case. One spouse may not be ready for a divorce. Or, if both of you are ready, you will still need to consider many factors to make the process go as smoothly as possible to avoid an all-out war or other repercussions.

  • Advice for a Divorce

    When you and your husband decide to divorce, your life will change in so many ways that you may be reeling from its effects. You are going to be alone to deal with your life. If you are prepared, you can make the transition smoother for you and for everyone else involved.

  • Advice for Aquarians in Love

    If you were born between Jan. 21 and Feb. 19, you fall under the sign of Aquarius. According to astrology, Aquarians tend to be incredibly intelligent people who look out for their fellow humans. As an Aquarian, you may notice that you often feel emotionally distant from people, which can get in the way when you go looking for love. Fortunately, Aquarians can be lucky in love, as long as they look for partners who fulfill certain qualities.

  • Advice for Dating After Divorce

    After you've been married, it can be overwhelming to go back into the dating world. If you are recently divorced, you may not feel ready to date. But, eventually you will want to dust off your old skills and give dating a try. It's probably going to be harder to date than it was before you were married, because the pool of men is considerably smaller. But many people have good experiences, especially if they are prepared and follow good advice for dating after divorce.

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