Check out that bling!

Tamar Braxton visited The Ellen Degeneres Show on Wednesday
and showed off some sweet pictures of her baby son Logan – as well as her enormous
diamond “push present” from husband Vince Herbert!

The 35-year-old singer and reality star, who gave birth back
in June, joked that the bling was a combo gift.

“You know, I don’t know if
it’s a Christmas present because my husband owed me a push gift and I didn’t
get it,” she told Ellen. “So I think this is like a combination.”

The ring features a GIANT
cushion-cut canary diamond – “40 or something carats,” Ellen
guesstimated – surrounded by mini diamonds on a micropavé band.

Just in case you haven’t heard
of a push present, it’s basically a gift from a new dad to a new mom after she
gives birth. 

It’s a relatively new trend, and it’s sparked some lively debate… in fact, a few of our contributors are pretty adamantly opposed to the idea:

Am I that naive – or perhaps stupid – not to
demand some expensive bauble from my husband just for being a willing
participant in building our family? – from “Push Present? Puh-leeze!”

I saw on a television
show where the mom asked for a Bentley after the birth of her second child and
got it! Maybe I am old-fashioned, but I thought giving birth was a gift in
itself. – from “No Push
Presents for This Mom”

What do you think? Is it
outrageous to expect a push present or is it just a nice gesture?