Women whose love lives have hit a rocky streak blame themselves for their troubles and spend hours pondering what they did wrong to get themselves into their current predicaments. Although there are numerous things that you can do to wreck your love life, before you spend time blaming yourself, consider the idea that there may be other forces at play. Some feng shui devotees believe that individuals looking for love must let this love in by setting up the locus of love, their bedrooms, in a love-inducing fashion.
Surround Yourself With Happy Couples
To find love, you have to surround yourself with images of love. Replace images of lone figures with pictures of happy couples. These images give off positive vibes and make your room a more inviting place for potential love partners.
Select a Cozy Bed
Instead of filling your room with a gargantuan king-sized bed, select a queen or a double. A small cozy bed is much more inviting and ensures that, when you do get that man back to your place, he doesn’t get lost on the expansive mattress.
Pick Some Patterned Sheets
Exciting patterned sheets are believed to add spice to your love life. Replace your plain-Jane pastels with a naughty leopard print or trendy tie-dyed pair, and your bedroom life my just perk up as well.
Ban the TV
Although you may enjoy lulling off to sleep watching a late-night talk show, TVs in the bedroom do not promote sexual health or satisfaction. Decide what’s more important to you, watching that show or receiving sexual fulfillment. When you weigh your options, you just might find that the TV would fit best in the guest room.
Set the Stage for Company
Partners are more likely to venture into your love life if you set the stage for them. Instead of filling your drawers, leave a few empty so that you have room for another person in your life. Hang a couple of vacant hangers in your closet. Buy a toothbrush for unexpected company to ensure that you are ready for whatever the night might bring.
Don’t Work Out in Your Boudoir
By working out in your bedroom, you bring struggle and strife into the space. You want your bedroom to be a harmonious, work-free zone. Ensure that this mood is maintained by saving your workouts for the guy and not sweating off your calories in your bedroom unless the calories are shed through sex-related exertion.
Make Your Bed Accessible
Some individuals try to create space in their tiny bedrooms by pushing one side of their beds against a wall. If you want to ensure that your bedroom is conducive to love, leave space on both sides of the bed. Doing so ensures that partners feel adequately invited into your space and increases the likelihood that you will receive a little nighttime company.
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