Here are the top 10 things teachers and/or schools wish parents would do, an excerpt from my book, Why Great Teachers Quit and How We Might Stop The Exodus.
1. Establish Routine
Establish a daily family routine, including healthy eating and sleeping habits.
2. Build Self-Esteem
Build their child’s self-esteem by expressing interest in the child’s schoolwork and affirming the child’s worth through positive messages.
3. Communicate
Communicate openly with the school and contact the school when they are aware of issues concerning their child’s success.
Approach your child’s teachers directly with an issue rather than going to the school office or principal first.
4. Set Realistic Standards
Express high and realistic standards for your child.
5. Check Homework
Check on homework regularly and ask questions about their child’s work.
6. Read Aloud
Read aloud daily to/with their child. Connect everyday experiences to what your child is learning at school.
7. Utilize the Community
Use community learning opportunities. Expose their child to the library, museums, the theater, concerts, etc. Encourage their child to join clubs, scouts, after-school sports or fine arts, and other community programs.
8. Monitor Activities
Monitor out-of-school activities and set expectations for appropriate behavior.
9. Learn at Home
Model learning at home by playing games, reading newspapers or magazines, and discussing current events.
10. Volunteer
Volunteer in your child’s classroom as much as you reasonably can. Parents and teachers have the unique and powerful opportunity to develop a strong, supportive relationship that can motivate and inspire children to do great things. We owe it to them and to ourselves to find ways to build positive partnerships and a respectful climate. By doing so, we not only can give our children the best education possible, but we also increase the likelihood that teachers will stay in the field doing what they do best.
