When Facebook “Support” Groups Do The Opposite…

seems to be a Facebook group for everyone about everything. 

I belong to several
local mom Facebook groups, a school moms group and a few others based on my
interests. For the most part, these groups are a fabulous resource – somewhere
to go to get information from like-minded people, share stories and even get

there have been a few incidents in my mama world that have made me think we
should all put a little more thought into what our Facebook “relationships”
really are. Over the last couple of weeks, in my groups alone, I’ve observed
the following somewhat disturbing situations:

1. A mom posted on a small community group that her kid had something contagious
over the holiday season. She wanted to give all the mamas a “heads up” in case
their kids showed symptoms. When her kid went back to school after the holidays,
some other children ridiculed the child for having the contagious condition.
Yep, clearly a mom in the Facebook group told her children the info the other
mom had considerately shared. The result was a child being made fun of and a
mother feeling like she betrayed the trust of her child.

2. A woman had a little rant on a community Facebook group about her husband.
on the group notified the husband and shared the content of the rant.

3. A woman was concerned about how her child’s school was handling a situation and
looked to the Facebook group for support and ideas. Someone in the group
forwarded her post to the school principal.

use these groups as a resource, thinking they’re sharing with trusted friends
who will keep their confidence. Apparently, this is not the case. 
It seems you
are not chatting or venting to girlfriends. 

It’s so important to remember that in
social media, anything you post can potentially become public. Even in a
private group, you can’t be sure who the other members are.

Let this
serve as a warning. You may be sharing with trusted friends, along with friends
who have poor judgment. You may actually be sharing with nameless, faceless

While I am a big believer in online communities and participate in
many, like any relationships, we must go into them with our eyes wide open.



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