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Flirting Tips for Women

February 26, 2010 by ModernMom Staff Leave a Comment

If you are looking for a relationship, or maybe even just a date for Saturday night, you are going to need to flirt. Flirting consists of subtle hints and clues that you send to a potential boyfriend to let him know that you are interested. Many flirting signs are done subconsciously, like giggling at jokes or flipping your hair. Other forms of flirting can be very intentional, and very effective. Here are a few ways to grab a guy’s attention… and maybe his number.

Step 1

Make eye contact. When you find a guy that you like, catch his eye. Once you have it, let the stare linger for a second, smile and then look away. Do this a few times in a fifteen-minute period. If he is attracted to you and is secure with approaching a woman, he will come over to talk to you. If he’s not, then you may need to approach him.

Step 2

Make physical contact. Men like to be touched by pretty women, so of course getting some skin-on-skin contact is a great way to flirt. If he makes a joke, touch the top of his hand with yours while you laugh. If you notice a scar on his hand, touch it, run your finger along it and ask him how he got it. The same goes for a tattoo. Make sure you touch him softly, almost as if you want to tickle him. You want to leave a nice sensation that he will want more of.

Step 3

Get closer. Move close enough that there are only inches between you. This is a sign that you are comfortable around him. Get face to face. If you are in a loud room, get close to his face under the pretense that he can hear you better if you’re closer. This works well, too if you are in a situation where you need to whisper. Let your breath flutter on his cheeks and lips. He’ll be wondering what it is like to kiss you.

Step 4

Let your eyes wander. Look at his throat, hands, butt and/or chest. Make sure he’s looking while your eyes rove. Guys like to be “checked out.”

Step 5

Lick your bottom lip every once and a while. Guys find this sexy and makes them feel like they are turning you on.

Warnings

  • Don’t act smitten. Even though you are giving him all of this attention, the number one rule of flirting is to not act like you are in love. Men like a chase. So, try to make sure that he knows you could leave at any moment and he needs to get your number quick. Mention that you’ll be heading to a club later, wave at a friend or make a text on your phone and tell him that your friend is wanting you to meet them.

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