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Get Back at a Cheater: Get Back into Your Body!

May 10, 2010 by Kristin_Anderson Leave a Comment

At first it’s shocking to find out that your partner has been cheating, then real feelings set in: rage, anger, despair, disorientation, and depression.

The rest of the story generally has two outcomes, we either curl into a ball and eat ice cream, staying that way for months, circling the drain, and making ourselves feel worse, or we curl into a ball and eat ice cream for a week then get up and show the world that success is the best revenge!

What are you really trying to repair here?

Answer: Your self – esteem

What is the best way to repair your self-esteem?

Answer: By getting in shape and feeling sexy again.

Motivation

What you really have going for you in this kind of disaster is a brand new dose of motivation. Take your motivation and your heartache and splurge on yourself in a way that will serve you into the summer. Follow these 5 steps and you will be ready for that sizzling summer fling in as little as 4-8 weeks!

1. Find A Trainer

Find a trainer; even if you can only afford one session every other week. He or she can give you a routine to do and then check back in. If you don’t have a gym or access to a trainer then find a Boot Camp class in a local park.

2.Get a Buddy

Recruit a friend to be a workout buddy- this is good for both of you!

3. Find a Class

Find a class to take 1x a week. Spinning, yoga, boxing, anything that makes you feel good. The workout and the comraderie is what we are going for here.

4. Cardio

Get outside for cardio and go for it! Whether you walk, run, or bike, fresh air is invigorating, is a high calorie burner, and a perfect way to clear your head.

5.Haircut

Treat yourself to a haircut- cut off the dead energy even if it’s just those nagging split ends. I promise this feels amazing!

We all go through heartache, rejection and embarrassment at some point in our lives. If you can find a way to better yourself because of it, you won’t be left with regrets. If you chose to better your health and fitness because of it, you will always come out on top- in everybody’s eyes.

For more tips, meal planning and perfect home workout videos from me, please visit www.mydailytrainer.com (see link below)

 

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About Kristin_Anderson

By practicing a wide range of off-ice training methods including ballet, pilates and track & field, former professional figure skater Kristin Anderson discovered that performing a diverse training regime leads to a more well-rounded athlete. She used her mixed method approach in her San Francisco and Los Angeles pilates studios, her M-TRAIN fitness app for the iPhone and iPod touch, and has carried her training philosophy over to her fitness company, My Daily Trainer. Losing and maintaining weight is as easy as 1,2,3 with Kristin's website www.mydailytrainer.com where you will find workouts, meal plans, a progress tracker and a lot of help from Kristin herself.

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