Talking dirty to your guy might not be something you’re comfortable with, and yet it’s something he wants you to do –trust us! Even if he hasn’t told you, chances are you will find that he will be totally turned on if you do it. With a little practice, you’ll have him catering to your every desire. Now, doesn’t that sound good?
I know it sounds crazy, but if you don’t know where to start buy an adult magazine or two, and read the forums. Unless you have been around a lot of dirty-talking men, you probably need a little help in the “talking dirty” department. If you don’t want to be seen purchasing dirty magazines, do an online search for “talking dirty” or “adult bedtime stories.” Look over sites such as Literotica in privacy. This will give you a launching pad and help you get more comfortable with some of the terms.
Some Easy Phrases
Some of the most-used phrases might be the easiest for you to start with. DirtyTalkTips.com offers many suggestions. At first these words might sound foreign coming out of your mouth, which is perfectly normal — just keep practicing until you can say something sexy to him during the heat of the moment. As you do this, it will get easier, and he is bound to show his appreciation.
Ask Your Man
Cosmopolitan magazine suggests asking your guy what he would like for you to say if you are having a difficult time coming up with the words or are simply too embarrassed in the beginning. He can start by asking you questions, such as “do you like it like that?” As you get more into the heat of the moment, you will begin to automatically respond to his questions. You might be amazed at the height your passions can reach when adding this element to your lovemaking.
Get Into Character
Dress the part. Getting into character can help take you out of the person you are on a daily basis and allow you to confidently play the part: Put on a red garter and stiletto heels, and confidently talk dirty to your guy as you lead him to the bedroom and beyond.
A cocktail might help too…