Sometimes, paying the bills, jobs, kids and daily errands get in the way of a couple’s love life. Sex can start to become a routine with the same positions and the same moves. You may hate to admit it, but sometimes you may feel that your sex life is boring. If you have ever felt that way, try some inventive love games to spice things up a bit.
Sense of Touch
This game is supposed to bring back that backseat-of-the-car romance that you and your partner may have experienced as teenagers. For this game, you ask your partner to take a hot shower. This will help him unwind and prepare his skin for the sensual rush he will experience. While your man is showering, you gather a mix of soft materials. Make sure one is a silky scarf and the other is satin panties. Other items you can gather are a feathered boa, cotton balls, a stuffed animal and nylon stockings. Help him dry off, sit him down in a chair and blindfold him with the scarf. Ask him to identify each item as you caress different parts of his body with it. Each one he gets right earns him a point. You can give him a long kiss for each point. The final touch is the satin panties. You will tease him with those. It will be like his adolescent fantasies that most boys have had about women’s underwear.
Although men may claim they only buy men’s magazines for the articles, that is not usually the truth. For this game, you will be the centerfold, and the game will be testing his memory skills. Buy a men’s magazine and leave it gift wrapped for your partner to find. Attach a note to the outside that reads, “Please study.” When you greet him, tell him that you have always wanted to be a centerfold, but never trusted another photographer, and hand him a camera. Lead him to your “studio” where you have all sorts of props, such as bathing suits, lingerie, his work shirts, hats or jewelry. See how many pictures from the magazine he can duplicate. Let him play director of this sexy photo shoot.
In the Closet
Not all games have to take a lot of time. Sometimes the “quickie” can be just what you both need. With this game, anticipation is the key. You will be playing a scavenger hunt game, with you as the prize. You will trace the outline of your shoes onto black construction paper and cut them out. You will need a few dozen. Place them at the door where he comes in from work. Make a path throughout the house, making him follow the footprints from room to room. The final pair will lead to your closet door. He opens the door to find you inside, lying on a blanket, propped up with pillows, wearing sexy lingerie. Grab him and pull him into your “lair.” Whisper in his ear that you’ve been planning this all day, and you can’t wait any longer.
- couple in love 2 image by Pix by Marti from Fotolia.com