If you need a little push in the bedroom, it’s time to try some kissing and love games. Romantic games can help you become closer to your honey, and add a little spice to your relationship. The key to incorporating these types of games successfully into your life is to find ones that you are both comfortable with.
As you’ve been together longer and longer, it’s only natural that sex starts to get a bit routine. You probable have sex on the same days, at the same times, in the same place and in the same position. It’s comfortable and predictable. However, this isn’t always the best thing for your relationship. Doing things out of the normal can rekindle those old flames of passion.
If you are shy about suggesting new things in the bedroom, a game could help you become more comfortable. Kissing games can help you to focus on the simple act of touch and intimacy. When you take time out to play these types of games, you learn more about each other and become closer.
You can purchase novelty board games that can help boost your love meter. These games often alternate between “truth or dare” type questions–at times asking about your thoughts or feelings and at other times telling you to do something naughty. There are also card games for couples, which usually feature new sex positions to try. However, you don’t need to purchase anything to have fun. Simply challenging yourselves to not engage in actual intercourse for at least 20 minutes can bring you closer.
You should not feel pressure to continue with the game if it makes you feel uncomfortable at any point. Each person has a different threshold of things that seem fun and things that seem downright disgusting. If you are interested in something that does not interest your partner, you need to work together to find something that interests you both.
Playing kissing and love games may result in sex, but it doesn’t have to. The goal of these types of games is to feel both emotionally and physically closer to your partner. If you dread the fact that he always expects sex when you just want to cuddle, be open with him about your feelings and try to find a way that you can both get what you need.
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