Pink or blue? When it comes to baby number three, Melissa Joan Hart wants to be surprised!

The 36-year-old actress is expecting her third child with husband Mark Wilkerson, and she says she won’t be finding out the sex ahead of time.

“We don’t want to know. We found out both other times, but this one we want [it to be] a surprise,” Hart told PEOPLE at Wednesday’s Big City Mom’s Biggest Baby Shower in New York City.

The new addition will join big brothers Braydon Hart, 4, and Mason Walter, 6.

Did you find out the gender of your baby or was it a surprise?