SOMETHING TO PONDER – What would you tell your child to do

SOMETHING TO PONDER : What would you tell your child to do ?

  Mothers tend to do for their children what they might not always do for themselves . your actions and experiences are setting the bar for your children to follow in . Over the years I have had women come to me telling me how they are in a toxic ,unhealthy and  loveless relationship , they hate their job and feel miserable and depressed  or were being bullied by a boss or friend  . I always listen and then ask them these simple questions   :

1. If this was your child and he/ she was in this relationship , job or having this experience with a friend  , what kind of advise would you give them ?
2. If it’s not ok for them , why is it ok for you ?
3. What kind of example are you setting ?  You are setting the pace by showing them that this is ok.
4. What advise would you give your child and how can you apply this to your self and situation ?