Orgasm, vagina, clitoris, penis…Do we have your attention yet? We thought so. So what do you think about sex? Are you getting enough or is your partner one of those insatiable men who wants it all the time? Our sex lives can be equated to the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. Some of us get too much, others too little and the slim few (in all likelihood) just enough. Were you thinking we would say: It’s too big, too small or just right?”
It can be difficult to find time for anything, let alone sex, in our very busy lives. When we do find the time, we are often too exhausted to enjoy it. We avoid sex by saying we have a headache, we’re too tired or that we’re not in the mood. At times we even “fake it” to get it over with as quickly as possible, since sex may, at times, merely be a deterrent to much-needed sleep. Frequently, we wonder what happened to the process, the foreplay and the romance. Who wouldn’t want to be wooed, live out fantasies or take a field trip to Romantic Depot? There, you’d surely be able to find a much greater selection of toys than at Toys R Us. Take a moment to think about your ultimate sexual fantasy. Whatever it is, give it a try. Take the initiative and reignite the passion in your relationship.
There was a controversial T-shirt on the market designed by Todd Goldman that said: “Boys Are Stupid, Throw Rocks At Them.” Men aren’t much better, ladies. Few are tuned into what makes us tick, makes us happy or makes us hot. If a single rose means more to you than a dozen, share this with your partner. Tell him what would make you happy. Let him in on those things that would spice up your sex life. If you want it wild, show him. We’re not suggesting you throw rocks at your guy, but you might consider rocking his world, because as Goldilocks eventually discovered, after giving it enough tries you’ll “get it” just right.